Sometimes, when we use the youtube link directly in iframe code, the video will not load and shows error like youtube refuse to connect.
<iframe width="420" height="345" src="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=97zGmkdhSNU">
</iframe>

YouTube doesn’t allow 3rd parties to embed their site directly like that.
The easiest way to get the correct link is to right-click on the YouTube video and select copy embed code.